I think you are wrong here, not wishing to put words into your mouth I suspect your view of christianity is a sort of be good to your neighbour, love your fellow man as yourself, turn the other cheek... etc. All good sentiments, if you asked almost any Muslim or Jew they would say their religion is the same.
It's when you take religion seriously that problems begin. A "proper" Christian is obliged to prophletise, spread the word, save souls and convert the non-believers. They need to study the bible (the word of god) for guidance etc, not a good idea. Once you go down this route the religion becomes very dangerous and undesirable.