fatshaft 83 Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 Perhaps you two should get a cubicle. I think that given his earlier views on bumsex he wouldn't be up for that. but also, vice versa it seems No, I'm up for it if you are. I'm pretty open minded. Yes, that is obvious, as I said in my very last post. Your mother must be proud. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
keyboarder 668 Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 I have noted that your punctuation skills, particularly your ommission of commas, tends to be appalling, why is that? There's only one "m" in omission you knob end. There's only one "m" in coma as well. Not entirely omitted - I'm going into one right now. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
fatshaft 83 Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 Fuck me even I'm bored of this now. Other people reading must be suicidal. How thick must you be to want to continue this garbage? Would you like me to tell you that "You've won" so you can get back to tossing off in front of Casualty? Again, what have you actually added to this thread? If you stop posting, perhaps we might again hear from that on topic load of spew, LDV. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Domino 227 Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 Again, what have you actually added to this thread? If you stop posting, perhaps we might again hear from that on topic load of spew, LDV. OY. Lay off my mate LDV Quote Link to post Share on other sites
La_Dolce_Vita 750 Posted September 19, 2009 Share Posted September 19, 2009 (edited) Sexual identities? I haven't ever apportioned a sexual identity to anybody. Who am I to determine? I haven't. How could I? The only real knowledge of any sexual identity is my own. And then it's just really a bunch of thoughts in my head which are impossible to define. Well you were saying earlier that youhave confidence to attribute sexual identities to people based on knowing who they have sex with. I haven't labelled your friend, but if you're asking me to based on your brief description (which I guess you are asking for some reason) I'd go with gay or bisexual. Don't really care either way. Does he? Do you? And you may think that, but it isn't actually what his sexuality is. He doesn't consider himself either. I brought it up as an example. To brand them all as homophobic is a bit messed up. Perhaps they just have different interests and priorities to you. Sounds like you're prejudiced.No it is not messed up, actually they have the prejudice. When people determine themselves as straight-acting and then state they only like straight-acting guys it is demonstrates internalised homophobia and a heterosexist understanding of things. It actually demonstrates what I am getting at. Because the use of the term straight-acting demonstrates that there is more to being straight (and gay) than just what you do in bed. When they say they are straight acting they are not saying they are attracted to girls or fuck girls. They are largely referring to their masculinity or perceived masculinity because it is a behaviour very much associated with heterosexuality. Pretty much, yeah. Why do you doubt that? I wouldn't be so ignorant to assume anything else about them from such a statement.I would doubt that, and in fact I am pretty certain, that other things will run through your mind. This is because, as I have said, the words gay and straight mean more than who you have sex with. The words are associated with behaviours (some stereotypical), they are associated with the culture based around those sexualities. If someone told me they were gay I would immediately make assumptions and know certain things. As well as knowing who they fancy, I also know the types of people they identify with as a group - I would know they have an awareness of gay culture. I can also make assumptions on what they may like or dislike (but assumptions are assumptions). I wouldn't first and certainly not solely think about sex! If someone said they were straight - I would recognise that they identify with other people who call themselves straight and straight culture and behaviours. If these identities were just about who people slept with, how come you can very often tell what someone's sexuality is from looking at them or briefly talking to them? Edited September 20, 2009 by La_Dolce_Vita Quote Link to post Share on other sites
La_Dolce_Vita 750 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 (edited) Then you would be very very much wrong. That is the ONLY thing I would think about them. I've only really seen your ridiculous views on the world in two threads, this one, and the one regarding patriotism, you seem to have no clue whatsoever about how other people view the world, and how their emotions and experiences affect that. Actually I was brought up to be straight so know how I am supposed to think. If you anything much about sexual identities and the meaning of these words you'd realise it is no ridiculous view. Some excerpts from wiki just in terms of heterosexuality : "Heterosexuality refers to sexual behavior and attraction to people of the opposite sex, or to a heterosexual orientation. As a sexual orientation, heterosexuality refers to "an enduring pattern of or disposition to experience sexual, affectional, physical or romantic attractions primarily to "persons of the opposite sex"; it also refers to "an individual’s sense of personal and social identity based on those attractions, behaviors expressing them, and membership in a community of others who share them."[1][2] The term is usually applied to human beings, but it is also observed in all mammals. Or read something like this: http://www.amazon.com/Thinking-Straight-Pr...4679&sr=1-3 Edited September 20, 2009 by La_Dolce_Vita Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Vulgarian 1,149 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 You are wasting your time with fatshaft. This thread was going so well ...until someone made a typing error. I'm out of here, man. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Dave Hedgehog 719 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 So did anyone get their arse violated in the bogs last night then? Not me this week I had a night in. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Topaz 26 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Vulgarian is right. It's time to bow out gracefully now , LVD. You have led an interesting discussion, without malice or petty insults. To continue would be to lessen the thought provoking points of your argument. Time to exit stage left and leave the floor to the rabble rousers. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Shit3hawk 24 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 14 pages and no name, i'll give you a clue, one of them would have no problem buying a 'leather' mask Quote Link to post Share on other sites
thebees 2,809 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 I think most people (in the whole of the Isle Of Man) know who it was, but really - Who cares? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
studmuffin 33 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 I think most people (in the whole of the Isle Of Man) know who it was, but really - Who cares? Exactly, good bloke before this, still a good bloke now. Couldnt give a toss (ooer) Tomorrows chip wrappers or whatever the saying is Quote Link to post Share on other sites
The Godfather of Manx House 2 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Hey, at least it appears to have brightened up a few of the more mundane lives on here. As echoed above, so fucking what *if* it's true ... ...GOMH*... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
La_Dolce_Vita 750 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Is this about Jeremy Clarkson or a politician? If someone just got caught and then told to leave then how come it is something that people are getting the skeet on? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Domino 227 Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 I got a post deleted for asking who it was, so obviously the powers that be care Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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