Oh my god - I could have written this post myself. This for my daughter is the 3rd " loop " of authorities thrying to find something wrong with her for very similar reasons you have given above.
They almost convinced me this time - I found myself doubting myself completely when it came to parenting - I was convinced it was my fault. But it's not because there is nothing wrong with her! She is a energy filled, imaginative 6 year old who hates sitting still, prefers to play alone, hums because she loves singing, excellent reader, where she should be at maths, and expresses child like excitement at everything new and exciting.
I have finally allowed them to " monitor " her to prove there is nothing wrong.
They have worn me down and encouraged me to doubt my daughter so I felt I have no choice.
I admire your strength so much. And am glad there is another spirited child
