quilp Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 Don't knock it till you try it... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhumsaa Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 £100 for 30 minutes? Do they give you change? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notwell Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 42 minutes ago, MediaStar said: You obviously have a different view on the sort of people who pay for sex than me. i would imagine having some pervert calling you up and trying to proposition you for sex would be distressing when you haven't asked for it and you're not a prostitute. Clearly so does dilli and no doubt a few others. Just because someone pays for sex does not make them a pervert. We are all paying for it directly or indirectly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bobbie Bobster Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 39 minutes ago, Rhumsaa said: £100 for 30 minutes? Do they give you change? They might use the car park charging model: 'or part thereof' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shake me up Judy Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 Even at those rates it's a steal compared to getting married Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MediaStar Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 54 minutes ago, notwell said: Clearly so does dilli and no doubt a few others. Just because someone pays for sex does not make them a pervert. We are all paying for it directly or indirectly You seem to know a lot about it so let's leave it there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notwell Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 What's to know? Other than you seem to be thinking only a pervert would use that service? Strange Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dilligaf Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 2 minutes ago, MediaStar said: You seem to know a lot about it so let's leave it there. Before the topic is dropped, why not just explain why you call anyone using an escort as a pervert ? I find that quite strange from someone who generally posts sensible stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MediaStar Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 1 minute ago, dilligaf said: Before the topic is dropped, why not just explain why you call anyone using an escort as a pervert ? I find that quite strange from someone who generally posts sensible stuff. I have clearly upset you and notwell making that statement. I'm also wondering why you are both going to such lengths to justify men who pay for sex? Whilst it's clear the pair of you are just trolling this forum pointlessly to get a rise out of people I will answer your question. I have done part time support work in London in the past for a charity that deals with vulnerable women and believe me most are not selling themselves for sex as a lifestyle choice. Many have problems with addiction, substance abuse, or are just plain desperate to feed their kids or are trafficked or pressured into it. As a consequence I do think that men who pay for sex often have something wrong with them as they only see the sex as a business transaction. They don't see (or care about) the misery, the hurt and the abuse that often surrounds the women who they interact with for an hour. If you have the sort of mentality where you can just pull up your pants and walk away afterwards without a care in the world regarding the potential psychological damage or degradation that's been inflicted on the women in question then, yes, I think there is something perverted about that. Some of the most pitiful women I have ever met worked in that line of business. They were very good actresses though smiling for the client and concealing the damage by saying all the nice things to the men they met: until they went back home again and blotted it out with coke or booze. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
woody2 Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 6 minutes ago, MediaStar said: I have clearly upset you and notwell making that statement. I'm also wondering why you are both going to such lengths to justify men who pay for sex? Whilst it's clear the pair of you are just trolling this forum pointlessly to get a rise out of people I will answer your question. I have done part time support work in London in the past for a charity that deals with vulnerable women and believe me most are not selling themselves for sex as a lifestyle choice. Many have problems with addiction, substance abuse, or are just plain desperate to feed their kids or are trafficked or pressured into it. As a consequence I do think that men who pay for sex often have something wrong with them as they only see the sex as a business transaction. They don't see (or care about) the misery, the hurt and the abuse that often surrounds the women who they interact with for an hour. If you have the sort of mentality where you can just pull up your pants and walk away afterwards without a care in the world regarding the potential psychological damage or degradation that's been inflicted on the women in question then, yes, I think there is something perverted about that. Some of the most pitiful women I have ever met worked in that line of business. They were very good actresses though smiling for the client and concealing the damage by saying all the nice things to the men they met: until they went back home again and blotted it out with coke or booze. all men pay for sex one way or another...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notwell Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 No one is going to any lengths to justify anything other than your broadbrush view that you apply based on some limited experience is likely to be wrong. It's well known that plenty of women escorting do it voluntarily and make a good living (plenty of documentaries have shown it). They often have long standing regular punters. Your assumption all must be perverts is simply not true. I've no doubt some are. As in all walks of life there are dodgy people but dilli pulled you and your answer kinda proves his point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dilligaf Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 2 minutes ago, notwell said: No one is going to any lengths to justify anything other than your broadbrush view that you apply based on some limited experience is likely to be wrong. It's well known that plenty of women escorting do it voluntarily and make a good living (plenty of documentaries have shown it). They often have long standing regular punters. Your assumption all must be perverts is simply not true. I've no doubt some are. As in all walks of life there are dodgy people but dilli pulled you and your answer kinda proves his point. Correct ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MediaStar Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 9 minutes ago, notwell said: No one is going to any lengths to justify anything other than your broadbrush view that you apply based on some limited experience is likely to be wrong. It's well known that plenty of women escorting do it voluntarily and make a good living (plenty of documentaries have shown it). They often have long standing regular punters. Your assumption all must be perverts is simply not true. I've no doubt some are. As in all walks of life there are dodgy people but dilli pulled you and your answer kinda proves his point. Some limited experience? I worked for a charity and saw it first hand. What's your experience if it's greater than mine if you profess to know so much about prostitution? You're clearly just a troll who derives satisfaction from being illogically argumentative in every possible situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
La Colombe Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 Men who pay for sex are perverts in my opinion. Whether such perversion, and there are clearly various degrees of perversion here, is acceptable or not is a different matter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notwell Posted June 10, 2017 Share Posted June 10, 2017 There's nothing illogical.about it. You made a statement..Dilli pulled you on it. I agree with his sentiment. I've given you examples which you can't seem to register. You do realise that many thousands of women escort and don't end up at the charity you worked at because they are not the thin end of the wedge? I haven't denied the problem exists. I've simply questioned you as Dilli has that all men who use an escorts are perverts. It appears you made a statement that you don't like being challenged about. What are you, 13 or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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